How To Improve Your Intimacy With Your Husband
If you and your husband have been married for a while, there is a good chance that you haven’t gone out on a date in a while. Many married couples get to a point in their relationship that is commonly called “the comfort zone.” This zone is not one that you want to be in, as your relationship may feel more like a friendship. To prevent this from happening, ask your husband out on a date. Although many wives believe that their husbands should do the date asking, you sometimes have to take hold of the situation yourself. Now may be one of those times. Choose an activity that is romantic, such as a romantic comedy for a movie or a nice restaurant. This can help to spark a little bit of romance and passion in your relationship, which may lead to better and closer intimacy at home.
Show Romantic Gestures
When it comes to “wowing,” in a relationship, women sometimes think that men should do it. You will also want to “wow,” your husband, like you did the first time that you met. One of the easiest ways to do so is by performing a number of romantic gestures. When out shopping with your husband, grab their hand and hold it. When walking by them in the house, give them a quick kiss. Sending a love note to work with them is another romantic gesture that you may want to try.
If your marriage enters into the above mentioned comfort zone, and intimacy seems like a thing of the past. Intimacy may seem more like a responsibility, a chore, or even work. To help reduce these feelings, be open about it. Do not wait for your husband to initiate intimacy and do not ask if your husband is up for it first, just get right down to business. Snuggle next to them on the couch. You may be surprised just how easy and effective it is to be intimate.
Your husband should like the surprise.
By Loverman Jerry Wade (Adapted for Familyplus)